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Drama – Free Vacations!

Is it possible to have a drama-free summer vacation?  I answered that question during an appearance on Channel 3′s Good Company Show this morning.  I made several suggestions to help you and your mate (with or without kids) reduce drama during your trip.

1. Meet as a couple or as a family at least one week before your vacation to make sure you are on the same page in the following areas:
2. Be clear on your vacation “theme.”  Is the theme of your vacation relaxation or activity? If it’s a mix of both, be sure to understand how much relaxation and activity each person wants.
3. Talk about your food expectations.  How much fine dining do you want to do?  Do you want to cook on vacation? Would you rather dine casually the entire time?
4. Will this be a techno-free vacation or will you be bringing your laptop or Blackberry?
5. Have an exit plan.  Make sure you exit your home to leave for your vacation in as calm and orderly way as possible.  How you leave your home sets the tone for traveling.
6. If you are driving, avoid arguing while your motor vehicle is in motion!  If you feel an argument coming on, pull over.
7. Have had a discussion with your mate in advance as to what your budget is for the trip.  What you agree to spend on the vacation may help determine the trip’s theme and dining decisions.

BON VOYAGE!

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